Body full of holes, yet I never bled out.
Each hole a carving out of every story, every person and every experience.
Each hole an excavation of myself for a cause I thought to be greater.
Each hole a reminder of a mistake and of an accident.
Each hole a reminder of a lesson and of a truth.
Why won’t you move on from your mistakes?
Because I wear my mistakes and I am my mistakes.
Body full of holes yet I never bled out.
I wear my mistakes yet you never see them because I am a body full of holes who never bleeds out.
I am my mistakes but I am not a mistake.
Louder and louder and louder and louder.
I say this to myself everyday as though saying this will fill my holes.
As thought saying this will heal me.
As though telling myself I’m not a mistake will fill me back up so I don’t worry about bleeding out.
As though every time I hear, “Fat”, “Ugly”, “Fat”, “Ugly”
I should fill up a hole instead of letting a new one form.
Body full of holes, yet I never bled out.
I am not your cadaver.
You do not get to practice social skills on me.
You don’t get to experiment heartbreak on me.
You don’t get to practice throwing curve balls at me.
But without permission, you still do.
As though you can’t hear me.
As though you are deaf.
As though you don’t care.
You dig new holes every single day.
Body full of holes, yet I never bleed out.
Don’t ask me why I won’t forgive you.
Because you knew just how many holes I had yet you went ahead to make yours.
You took parts of me because you were ashamed of your one hole.
You forgot I was a body full of holes, yet I never bleed out.
Don’t ask me why we’re not friends anymore.
Your took the biggest piece.
Body full of holes, yet I never bleed out.
I am strong, I am powerful and I am enough.
Holes and all.
I am enough.
Body full of holes, yet I never bled out.
January 7, 2020 at 9:27 pm
Dear Tolu,
I love this piece (almost) as much as I love you. You do this amazing thing in your writing where you let the reader know you, regardless of whether you know them or not. Your vulnerability and love for writing as a whole is beautiful. Your voice never fails to amaze me and let me feel a completely different way each time. How it is possible to fangirl over someone’s writing this much, I will never know. Thank you for letting me hear you in a way I wouldn’t have been able to without your brilliant writing.
I really, truly, honestly can say I have no advice for you. I wracked my brain trying to come up with something but each phrase just… worked. Your voice was evident and the overall concept of this piece was beyond amazing. I am sending you a hug as I write this, completely in awe of the love you seem to carry, the truth you hold and share and your vulnerability. Beautiful.
Thank you Tolu for never failing to show me the best writing. This world needs more of you. Love you always <3.
Love,
Alyna.
January 9, 2020 at 8:55 pm
Dearest Alyna,
I love you too. It is certainly difficult to put my heart in every piece of writing, but I do my best. Thank you for recognizing that.
I am definitely hugging you back. You are beautiful.
The true gift of everything, is your friendship.
I love you.
With love,
Tolu x
January 9, 2020 at 9:53 pm
Dear Tolu,
This is a spoken word that I will never get tired of hearing. The way that you organize your words to form such beautiful sentences blows my mind every single time. I absolutely love the imagery in this entire piece and I can confidently say that I wouldn’t be able to come up with anything half as good. When I heard “you took the biggest piece,” for the first time, I actually paused and contemplated my existence.
There’s no corrections, this is perfect as are you.
Love your work.
Sincerely,
Tina
January 14, 2020 at 8:30 pm
Dear Tolu,
I distinctly remember being entranced by the tone of your poem when you first performed it. I love how smooth and ethereal you made this entire piece yet there is still pain within it and I think that’s a really beautiful technique. Your ability to be vulnerable is a gift and you are an inspiration as a writer and performer when it comes to breaking out of one’s shell.
– Reegan =)